Ellie in front of Julia Child's kitchen, Washington, D.C 2009
Elizabeth "Ellie" F. Balco
August 21, 1940 - January 12, 2011
Ellie made her journey to heaven last week and even though our family was prepared, the truth is, you really can't prepare for when it does happen. I can't begin to describe what Ellie means to me. Ellie was not only my mother-in-law, but she was a dear friend. She was a graceful, thoughtful, warm, strong, intelligent, loving and beautiful woman - inside and out. I remember when I first met Ellie and how welcoming she was; there was never a moment when she ever made me feel out of place. We had great moments together and I will remember those moments during this difficult time.
Ellie was an excellent cook; always encouraging me to be brave in the kitchen. I would always laugh when she would say "Melanie, we are having a simple dinner tonight" and of course I would expect a simple dinner, but Ellie never served anything simple, her meals were always delicious and full of love. In addition to being an excellent chef, Ellie was talented in many areas; she played the piano, crocheted, painted, golfed, and played tennis (to name a few). I'm going to miss so many things about her - her friendship, smile, hugs, fast-pace nature, bread, Christmas cookies, encouraging words and of course her love. The world is a better and brighter place because of Ellie; she touched so many people, I'm forever touched.
Placitas, NM
celebrate after transporting the wedding cake
June 2010
Martha's Vineyard
June 2010
Beautiful post, Mel. It looked like Ellie lived a wonderful, blessed life full of joy and I know she will be an influence on you for the rest of your life, which is more inheritance than one could ask for!
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Sarah
Sounds like Ellie was an amazing woman and lucky to have been surrounded with so much love and blessings in her life. Thinking of you and Steve! xo
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